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hey! so i love your blog and i think you have great insight! and i wanted to know what you think about this. my boyfriend for two months wants me to move in and sell my place. i really want to but am i listening to my heart not my head?
xxx nikk
Heyy Nikki,
Personally, two months seems a tad quick, but every couple is different. I moved in with “Trey” after six months of dating. Some people move in with people after a month, and others after a year. Just ask yourself the following questions:
-Do you think this will be a lasting relationship?
-Do you completely trust him?
-Do you know about everything that may haunt you later (scary exgirlfriends, anything suspicious in his apartment?)
If you are still having second thoughts, you could always try it out. Do a few sleepovers, and see how it goes. Was he awkward and dismissive? Was he nice and welcoming? If he was awkward, you could wait a few months more so you know each other well. You can always talk to him about your feelings. You may want to keep your apartment just in case, too (but tell him you’re doing that, remember Burke and Christina on Grey’s Anatomy?).
I hope my advice helped! Good luck with everything!
Zoe